Friday, December 25, 2009
Monday, December 14, 2009
Happy holidays!
Saturday, October 31, 2009
A new Day - Happy Halloween!
Also,I've started back up on my weight loss goals. I really want to get down under 250 by GAC next year. It won't be easy, but I think that I can do it. I just have to make the decision to not be a fat tub of lard any more. I want to be around for my children and if I keep getting fat, there is no way that's gonna happen. In terms of Blogging/Twitter/etc - My goal is to blog here at least 2 times per week about what's going on in my life and tweet 2x/day If you are a reader of mine and want more, I'll give you more, but now here you go That's all for now - Since Its halloween, I'm taking Opie and Simba trick or treating and I'll be back with picturesSee ya later
Friday, October 16, 2009
for that guy in LA who says interracial marriage is wrong
Interracial couple denied marriage license in La. - Yahoo! News
NEW ORLEANS – A white Louisiana justice of the peace said he refused to issue a marriage license to an interracial couple out of concern for any children the couple might have.
Keith Bardwell, justice of the peace in Tangipahoa Parish, says it is his experience that most interracial marriages do not last long.
"I'm not a racist. I just don't believe in mixing the races that way," Bardwell told the Associated Press on Thursday. "I have piles and piles of black friends. They come to my home, I marry them, they use my bathroom. I treat them just like everyone else."
Bardwell said he asks everyone who calls about marriage if they are a mixed race couple. If they are, he does not marry them, he said.
Bardwell said he has discussed the topic with blacks and whites, along with witnessing some interracial marriages. He came to the conclusion that most of black society does not readily accept offspring of such relationships, and neither does white society, he said.
"There is a problem with both groups accepting a child from such a marriage," Bardwell said. "I think those children suffer and I won't help put them through it."
If he did an interracial marriage for one couple, he must do the same for all, he said.
"I try to treat everyone equally," he said.
Bardwell estimates that he has refused to marry about four couples during his career, all in the past 2 1/2 years.
Beth Humphrey, 30, and 32-year-old Terence McKay, both of Hammond, say they will consult the U.S. Justice Department about filing a discrimination complaint.
Humphrey, an account manager for a marketing firm, said she and McKay, a welder, just returned to Louisiana. She is white and he is black. She plans to enroll in the University of New Orleans to pursue a masters degree in minority politics.
"That was one thing that made this so unbelievable," she said. "It's not something you expect in this day and age."
Humphrey said she called Bardwell on Oct. 6 to inquire about getting a marriage license signed. She says Bardwell's wife told her that Bardwell will not sign marriage licenses for interracial couples. Bardwell suggested the couple go to another justice of the peace in the parish who agreed to marry them.
"We are looking forward to having children," Humphrey said. "And all our friends and co-workers have been very supportive. Except for this, we're typical happy newlyweds."
"It is really astonishing and disappointing to see this come up in 2009," said American Civil Liberties Union of Louisiana attorney Katie Schwartzmann. She said the Supreme Court ruled in 1967 "that the government cannot tell people who they can and cannot marry."
The ACLU sent a letter to the Louisiana Judiciary Committee, which oversees the state justices of the peace, asking them to investigate Bardwell and recommending "the most severe sanctions available, because such blatant bigotry poses a substantial threat of serious harm to the administration of justice."
"He knew he was breaking the law, but continued to do it," Schwartzmann said.
According to the clerk of court's office, application for a marriage license must be made three days before the ceremony because there is a 72-hour waiting period. The applicants are asked if they have previously been married. If so, they must show how the marriage ended, such as divorce.
Other than that, all they need is a birth certificate and Social Security card.
The license fee is $35, and the license must be signed by a Louisiana minister, justice of the peace or judge. The original is returned to the clerk's office.
"I've been a justice of the peace for 34 years and I don't think I've mistreated anybody," Bardwell said. "I've made some mistakes, but you have too. I didn't tell this couple they couldn't get married. I just told them I wouldn't do it."
Are you kidding me - Glad this guy wasn't in Wisconsin 12 years ago or I would have been in a heap of trouble
Saturday, October 10, 2009
Back to work
Saturday, October 3, 2009
Friday, October 2, 2009
the trials and tribulatons of interviewing
Eep
Saturday, September 5, 2009
TJ's presents come early
Sent from my iPhone
Marc...
Friday, September 4, 2009
I need to come up with a name...
Sunday, August 30, 2009
I wasn't always fat...
Here's where you come in. I'll be giving a prize to whomever can send me a picture of my skinny self - If you have one. I'll post them here on my blog as they come in and you guys can vote. Thanks p.s. I'll get back to that skinny guy sooner rather than later, just you watch.
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
Sorry i've been away for so long
1. She lost a bunch of weight and looks rockin'
2. She seems to have found happiness in the arms of her new man ( even though he doesn't talk much - maybe it was me)
3. She gave me an awesome book about love and marriage and life, and it truly changed my way of thinking. For all of those things - thank you - You are the best!Lastly, happy birthday to my little Brother, Reggie, who turned 25 on monday - keep striving to your dream, and when you get rich, you'll need a lackey and I'll be there See ya aroundMarc...
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
my favorite foods/things - part 1
Saturday, August 8, 2009
My social experiment
I would like you to tell me what about me made you decide to say, "I like him." It could be something funny; it could be something deep, or something in between. If you could do this for me, I'd be very grateful. (If the answer is nothing, or, I hate that SOB, well, that's fine, too as it will help me with my project)
and the responses I got were interesting - people talked about how genuine I was (and still try to be); people talked about how welcoming I am; my love and dedication for my fraternity; how good I strive to be for my friends, the fact that I'm easy to talk to and that I always have an ear for people.Some people talked about my character and my concern for otehrs and I even got some people to talk about my politics and how I force others to look at both sides. Some talked bout the first time they met me and how I looked (my penchant for bow-ties, ect) The best comment I got, though, was probably from the person who responded who knows me the least - I've only met him face to face 1 time for 2 days while he was interviewing me for a job. He said,
That quote alone really made me take stock in who I am, and who I had become lately. It's my hope moving forward that I live up to that quote, because if we all do, we'll live in a much better place. What it really made me do was become dedicated to getting off of my ass and really getting to work. If people see me as that person then I have to be that person and live up to the ideals that are there. that's all for now - see ya soon
Thursday, August 6, 2009
Something that might help you this year
they are located at www.phiredup.com
Do youhave members who flail about socially like awkward turtles? Of course you do. You might even be one of them. One of the greatest gifts you can give one of these AT’s is the gift of social confidence and energy.
One of the reasons I’m so proud of what Phired Up does is because college students have limited opportunities in their formal education to learn good communication and sales skills. These are arguably the most vital skills to master if one wants to be successful in relationships, work, organizations, etc. after college — yet our institutions of higher education, in general, do a poor job of building positive communication habits in their students.
We can talk about recruitment strategies until we’re blue in the face, but if you’re an absolute social dud, if you’re awkward to the point of making others uncomfortable, if you can’t summon confidence and energy in yourself in social situations… well, we need you to improve yourself before we can improve your recruitment.
I recently did a powerful workshop with a group of fraternity men in which I demonstrated the power of bringing CONFIDENCE and ENERGY to a social situation. As we push the collegiate student organization world toward social excellence, a great place to start is by building their CONFIDENCE and ENERGY. What are you doing to build the CONFIDENCE and social ENERGY of your members?
Social Energy
I would argue that the energy you bring to a social situation is your own choice. After you read this post you’ll no doubt engage in some social situation… what energy will you bring to that. Will you be aloof, tired, bored, average, nice? Or will you be powerful, engaging, interested, fun, warm, inviting? It is your choice, I think…
The Myth of Cool
I learned long ago the power of taking off your “Cool Cap.” Cool Caps get in the way of social excellence. It has become commonly accepted that people who are good socially are the traditional “cool” people. I strongly argue that. I think socially excellent people are often not obviously”cool.” They don’t try to impress other people — other people are naturally impressed by how confident they are in themselves and the positive energy they bring with them to every social interaction. If you don’t think you’re cool, that’s o.k. It has nothing to do with being socially excellent. In fact, most “cool” people I know think they can lean on their coolness in social situations… they often miss out on experiencing social excellence.
Social Confidence
CONFIDENCE comes from practice. Plain and simple. To become confident socially, check out the lessons in these great non-Phired Up resources. Most of these are blog posts, and there are two big downloads that can be really helpful.
Share the lessons from these resources with your members — THEN PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE!
The Positivity Blog: 8 Tips from the last 2500 years
The Positivity Blog: 5 Awesome and 5 Awful Conversation Topics
AskMen.com: How to Improve Your Social Skills
Penelope’s Trunk: Three Specific Ways to Improve Your Social Skills
Dale Carnegie: Communication Principles Free Download
The 7 Challenges Workbook: Free 100 Page Book Download
3 Steps to Making Socially Excellent Awkward Turtles
Here are three important stepsforyou to use to turn the Awkward Turtles in your organization into socially excellent members (who can recruit!):
STEP 1 - CHOOSE EXCELLENCE and ENERGY: The first step is to challenge your members on the choices they make in every social situation. What do they choose to be? Shy or Proud? Inward or Outward? Cool or Curious?Ask them todefine with a single word whatenergythey’d like to exude in that social situation. Ask themhow theywant the other people there to describe them after the social situation.
STEP 2 - PRACTICE IN REALITY: Many peopleget excited about the idea of role-playing social situations so that people can practicebeing sociallyexcellent.This is a fine way to start to build confidence, butnothing replaces reality as the ultimate testing ground. The truly best way to practice good social skills is to do it in real situations. Start by taking your awkward turtles somewhere that they’ll know nobody and nobody will know them. This offers a low-risk opportunity to experiment with new social techniques. Next, try it with some other organizations you’re friendly with and who might benefit from helping their awkward turtles as well. Finally, jump right into a real life social situation (or recruitment situation) and be there with your little turtles the whole time, correcting their behavior, encouraging them, and helping them build their confidence.
STEP 3 - KEEP IMPROVING: Social excellence is not mastered in the course of a day, a week or a year. Social excellence is a commitment to continual improvement and always pushing your own comfort zone. As an organization, make it one of your main accomplishments each year to push your members to higher levels of social excellence.
Tuesday, August 4, 2009
My political bent
Thursday, July 30, 2009
Race, changes of life, and Phi Psi - RIP Carlos
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
I want google voice and (pic) the reason I get up in the morning
So Google has come out with this new app called voice that lets you put everything voice (vm, calls, etc) in one place. It's going to allow me to forward everything to the same spot and i'm super excited, but ATT just threw it off of the iPhone which is soooo bogus. More to come on this developing news
In other news, Simba (my 11 month old- not his real name of course) actually walked this morning so I'm pretty stoked about that - here's a picture.
I hope my week gets better - it started off pretty crappy
see ya soon
Monday, July 27, 2009
Posterous | Re: My First Blog Post
Should prostitution be legal in the majority of America? If yes, why? If No, why not?
It's my opinion that, assuming the prostitute in question is there of their own free will, and not via coercion, that it should be legal. It should be taxed and monitored, and the providers should be tested regularly and there you go. Looking forward to people's answers.
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
Baseball's over - for now
We had our regional championship this weekend (for those of you readers that are out of state, or used to other formats, in most parts our regionals would be equivalent to your sectionals) and we lost 9-7. I won't bore you with the minutia of the game other than the bomb my CF hit onto Michigan Ave to get us within 2. lord knows we got close, but couldn't get over the hump. I wanted to win so badly, but it wasn't to be. I finish this year knowing that my 7 seniors are in the top 12 in their class and all are going to good schools next year.
see ya around campus
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
About a dozen shy now
What have I been doing? Well, i'm been eating less and also trying to work out at least 3x/week. I don't always succeed, but i don't let that little setback get in the way of my goal. I've got a long way to get to where I want to be (not shopping in big/tall stores), but I think that I can get there, and without the surgeon's scalpel. As always, I thank my friends and my family for their support, and for Olivia's biting comments that make me go to the gym (Daddy, you're the biggest Brown Bear I've ever seen...)
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
It's been a long time
I went to my 20th high school reunion last weekend and it was, to say the least, a blast from the past. It was funny to watch some things occur:
- People falling back into their old cliques from high school
- No real deep conversations -almost every conversation that I either heard or participated in went like this, " Hi. its so good to see you. are you married? do you have any kids?" and moved from there - either into parent zone, or sort of scorn for those who haven't borne any fruit... unless they were living some fab life, and we had some of those.
- people still holding on to whatever baggage they had in HS, and the amazement that they brought it with them to the reunion
That's all for now, see ya soon
Thursday, February 26, 2009
On other fronts, my life is getting better - I'm losing weight ( i think it's the whole "putting less food down the piehole theory" and getting ready for baseball. I've started talking to someone every week about the things that are holding me back and getting me ready to push forward. I'm excited.
One of my goals for lent is to post something here and on my other blogs at least once a week. It'll make the creative side of me move better. see ya on the flip side!
Sunday, February 1, 2009
25 things you didn't know about me
1. My Siblings range in age from 26 to 66
2. I learned to drive on a tractor in OK at age 11
3. I carry 3 kennedy half dollars - 1 from 1971, 1 from 2005 and 1 from 2008. and the 1971 piece was carried by my dad everyday until he died.
4. If I could eat only 3 things for ever, they would be Pizza, Italian Beef sandwiches and gummi bears
5. Holly, and only Holly, can tell me this joke and make me laugh - "What's Brown and Sticky?"
6. I'm deathly afraid of clowns
7.I'm the only person in the history of St. Ignatius to be confirmed and take first communion in the 5th floor chapel
8. I have most of the songs on those late-night TimeLife "Glory and Praise CD collections" (I can only imagine; our god is an awesome god) on my ipod and play them at full blast in my car
9. Once, while coaching girls basketball, i made a girl cry simply by pointing.
10. I love Hootie and the Blowfish - I mean like have all of their albums, like long after their were popular.
11.I have at least 1 friend in each of the 50 states
12. My 3 favorite days are: My birthday, Baseball Opening Day and Election Day
13. I have 2 middle names
14. I own over20 bowties
15. In 37 years, I've never gone more than 10 months without having a room mate
16. I love fruity, sweet "girly" drinks
17. My secret dream job is to have my own radio talk show like Roe Conn
18. I know the school Mascots of all 119 D1 football teams
19. I laugh hysterically when I see a dog chasing its own tail
20. I read at least 1 book per week cover to cover
21. My secret crush is Stacy London from TLC's what not to wear and I want to be Clinton Kelly
22. I can recite all of the Schoolhouse Rock rhymes (I'm just a bill...)
23. I played gold against Eldrick C. Woods and Lost my ass
24. I love Hats
25. I would love to live in a hotel for a year
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
A new day is here!
As the grandson of a man lynched for simply wearing the uniform of his country, a country that he risked his life for countless times - today is special. As the son of a man that, in order to continue to work for a country he loved so much, had to go to court just to achieve that priveledge, today is amazing. As a young man who has been given every opportunity to showcase his potential and sometimes failed miserably, this is a new dawn.
I stand before my friends, family and my God to tell you that today starts a new Chapter in My Life. Marc 2.0 if you will. Many things will stay the same, but over the coming year you will see many new changes. Some of you might cringe at what you see, but know that its all for the best. Some of you might decide that you don't want to "opt-in" to the new Marc...and that's OK too. We've had a good ride and all of you have helped me get this far on my journey.
Enjoy the spectacle of what we, collectively, are about to witness today. We won't see anything like this for a long time.
Marc...